Monday 3/19 5am

just spoke with her nurse, a new male, he said that she had a restful night and was following all commands (I chuckled as she doesn't normally like to be told what to do) and her vitals are stable and good.  He thought that they would probably start the weaning process again to take the tube out but that the doc had not been there yet to make that call.  I am hoping to be there by then so I can watch and stop them if she is in too much pain.  I have been told that she could stay on this at the most 2 weeks but the thought is the sooner the better...but I keep reminding them that her body has taken a major hit and I am fine with one more day of quiet rest....I am no doctor but I know time is a great healer and the trauma that she sustained was hugh.  Both Christian and I would rather have her comfortable and not hurting then to do this too soon.  The hardest part is when they mess with her and I can see how much she hurts.....they were really good yesterday about upping pain meds before they messed with her..so maybe they have that more under control and today will work.  I so appreciate all the well wishes - someone asked me about sending things to the hospital at this point there can not be flowers or balloons in the ICU but once she gets moved then she can have things and visitors.  That is all for now....more later this evening after I have been there.  Happy Monday