Sunday.....last night was not as smooth as Friday night.....I changed the mask back to the canula about 11:30pm and she slept a little...she woke up about 2:30 am and after helping her back to bed (she got herself turned around and couldn't figure out how to readjust herself) I put the mask on her again....it wasn't on right so it was making a lot of whistling noise and my mom was frustrated...so I took it off again and she went back to sleep...I didn't though. I laid there thinking about the "what if's"...what if being at home doesn't work?? what if she would need 24 hour care for longer than 3-4 weeks?? she has already brought up her finances...and how much this all was going to cost...I told her that I had it worked out..she doesn't like that...I thought about how she would feel having to give up control of "her stuff". Oh well we will just have to wait and see - in the meantime....here we go.
My kids woke me at 7:30 so I was up and running....my mom wanted to sleep longer....she asked the time and went back to sleep. She did think that is was Monday and that we were going to get her hair done. About 9 my mom got up...ate a little bfast and took her meds. The phone rang and it was Virginia the home health nurse wanting to come by and see my mom this morning...YES I said...so she said she would be there about 11am...my mom said "I am tired I want to go to bed" - I didn't let her so that she could be up for the nurse. When the nurse got there she asked my mom a few questions..and my mom took a little while to answer but she got them right. I asked Virginia (in front of my mom) if she could be left alone...and Virginia said not for a while....at least 3-4 weeks - my mom had been complaining about all the people in her house. We shall see. It would be hard to have all your independence taken.
My cousin Alina has been awesome these last 2 days...she came over and took Mia to her house or the park.....she would have been so bored just hanging around. Leif, Sonia, and Shirley worked hard with me to make a schedule to keep my mom covered....thanks you all. At 3pm today my brother came over so I could get going home....Michael has a test everyday next week and he needs to go to bed early and sleep well. It is easier for me to help my mom while my kids are in school as this keeps their lives consistant. So I will be there tomorrow and am taking my mom to get her hair done and her toes polished...she should be good and tired after that.
So until tomorrow...good night.
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